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How to Find Other Adult Skaters in Your City

By Sam Torres, 44

Skating alone is fine. But skating with people your own age, who understand what it’s like to be stiff in the mornings and cautious about falling, is something different.

Here’s how to find them.

Start at the park, at the right time

Most adult skaters at public parks show up during off-peak hours — weekday mornings and early afternoons, before school lets out. If you show up at 3pm on a Saturday, you’re skating with teenagers. Show up at 9am on a Tuesday, and you’ll often find a handful of adults in their 30s, 40s, and 50s.

Be patient. Show up consistently. Introduce yourself. The adult skater network at any given park is informal, but it exists.

Facebook groups

Search “adult skaters [your city]” or “skate over 30 [your city]” on Facebook. These groups exist in almost every major city now. They organize informal sessions, share spots, and welcome newcomers without judgment.

If nothing exists in your area, start one. It takes five minutes and you’ll likely find other people searching for the same thing within weeks.

r/OldSkaters on Reddit

The subreddit r/OldSkaters is a genuine, supportive community of adults who skate. It’s not geographic, but it’s useful for advice, sharing session clips, and connecting with other adult skaters globally. Many local meetups get organized through DMs there.

Skate shop bulletin boards and staff

A good local skate shop will know about adult skate nights and informal meetups in your area. Ask the staff — especially if they’re older skaters themselves. Many shops run or know about sessions specifically for returning adult skaters.

Our directory

We maintain a directory of skating groups for adults 40+ across the US, UK, Canada, and Australia — both in-person meetups and online communities. If you find a group that’s not listed, submit it so others can find it.

Organizing your own session

If there’s a gap in your city, fill it. Post in local Facebook groups, put a note on the skate park bulletin board (if there is one), or message a few people you’ve seen skating at the park. A “show up at 10am Sunday, all welcome” post on social media will often find you more people than you expect.

The adult skate community is growing. It’s scattered and informal in most places, but it’s there.